Summary
A parent asks whether an eight-year-old’s inappropriate behavior toward other children is associated with Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). They want to know how to respond and discourage the behavior.
The response cautions against interpreting every impulsive or inappropriate action as sexual and discusses the broader difficulties with inhibition that can accompany ADHD.
It outlines clinician-directed medication and behavioral approaches, together with educational resources and coaching, as possible forms of support rather than establishing why this particular child is behaving this way.
Question
Reader · Identity withheldDoes heightened sexual behavior go along with the ADHD?
My eight year old is exhibiting inappropriate behavior to other children. What can be done to deter this kind of behavior?
Answer
Allan Schwartz, Ph.D.It is possible for heightened sexual behavior to occur in an eight-year-old child with ADHD. However, because children with ADHD often display many types of inappropriate behavior, it’s important to avoid labeling all such actions as sexual. Hyperactive children can be compared to a car speeding at 60 miles per hour without a driver. Without someone in control, the car will swerve, bump, and crash into anything in its path. Similarly, a hyperactive child moves quickly without awareness of who or what is around them. They blurt out whatever comes to mind, don’t wait their turn, climb, jump, and run with boundless energy. This behavior can frustrate teachers, parents, and other children.
To help manage these behaviors, children with ADHD are often treated with stimulant medications, with Ritalin being the most commonly prescribed. Newer forms of Ritalin last throughout the day, reducing the need for multiple doses. Doctors may also prescribe other medications to help control impulses.
Alongside medication, behavioral treatments are available. Dr. Edward Hallowell, a recognized expert on ADHD, uses physical exercises that stimulate the brain to help children overcome symptoms. You can learn more about his approach in his books Driven to Distraction and Delivered from Distraction, available in bookstores. Dr. Hallowell’s website, offers additional information and resources. Another helpful resource is CHADD. Additionally, specialized coaches are available to train children to control hyperactive impulses and improve focus.
Best of luck.
